Feeling genuinely happy for another person’s good fortune may be one of the truest marks of authentic goodness and real friendship. Surprisingly, it sometimes seems easier to find someone who will weep with us during our hard times than to find someone who will rejoice with us in our successes. Most people are compassionate and caring toward those who suffer, but a special quality manifests itself in those who are genuinely happy for the good fortune of others.
Some have called this quality an “abundance mentality”—the conviction that life is full of good fortune, that there’s plenty of happiness to go around, and that one person’s joy does not deplete the supply for everyone else. Those with such abundant hearts do not feel threatened or jealous when someone seems to be winning at the race of life, because they know that life is not a race. They measure success in life not by how many people they surpass but by how many people they lift. They feel that every man or woman’s triumph is a victory for us all, and this generosity of spirit gives them peace and contentment.
Life can be unsettling enough; turning it into a competition only makes us feel less secure. So how can we overcome the human tendency to count wins and losses? How can we enlarge our hearts to make room for joy in the successes of others?
Perhaps the answer lies in looking beyond life’s mundane, fleeting things and intentionally holding on to a larger perspective—the big picture. This may help us see that we are not victims, that things will eventually work out for us, and that the things that really matter—like peace, love, and real joy—are truly everlasting. We will see that withholding a compliment or congratulations does not make us happier. Simply stated, when we choose to have an abundant heart, when we decide to cheer for others, we just feel better. Our circumstances may not change, but our heart does. We are blessed with more serenity when we rejoice with those who rejoice. Indeed, happiness for others’ successes nurtures happiness within ourselves. Feb. 1, 2015, Broadcast Number 4,455
Sometimes rejoicing with others is hard for some reason but it's something that I want to work on and improve in my life.
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Trevar (nephew/cousin) received his mission call and he wanted to come to our house to open it. It really meant so much to me that he wanted to open this at our house. To me it's such a special time that a future missionary will always remember. I haven't experienced this yet as a mom but what joy to know that he will be serving the Lord and the people of Brazil. Trevar will be an awesome missionary. He is so dedicated to doing his best at everything he does and he will be a great blessing to those he comes in contact with.
He was broadcasting it over the internet to his family and anyone that wanted to watch. So it took a little bit of time to get everything ready. We found out later that even Jenner (his brother currenty on a mission in Peru) was able to watch since he is an assistant to the president and they gave him permission. He will be going straight to the MTC in Brazil and will most likely miss Jenner because he is not finishing his mission until July.
We even got a Brazil dessert for him.
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